Over at the Good Mangina Project I found this comment from a woman:
Though, I have read a lot of books to better understand men Randy. Wild at Heart by John Eldridge (He writes a lot of books about men), He’s Just Not up For it Anymore by Bob and Susan Berkowitz, Save the Males: Why Men Matter Why Women Should care by Kathleen Parker, For Women Only, What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn, Why Men Stop Having Sex: Men, the Penomenon of Sexless Relationships by Bob Berkowitz, Men in Love by Nancy Friday…to name some.
Take a look at this list of books she read. They’re almost all written by women or written with men with female co-authors. (That’s even before taking into consideration that publishing is female dominated.) If you’re trying to understand men and end up reading books written or co-written by women, then something is wrong. Of course, this woman can’t see that.
If you’re a woman who wants to understand men, then you need to read things that aren’t written or co-written by women and aren’t filtered by women. That means avoiding books for the most part. Try reading A Voice For Men, The Spearhead, or this blog. You may scared or horrified by what you read there, but the only reason for that is because you can’t handle writing that is free of misandry.