I made some updates to The Truth About (Anti-)Family Courts page. I made some minor tweaks, added a link for Brendan’s recommendation of Stephen Baskerville’s book, “Taken Into Custody”. I also added this comment from Brendan:
The way that the system is set up currently actively punishes men who make this decision. As bad as it can be for other guys, the guys who get it the level absolute worst in divorces are the guys who have SAHMs for wives. If you have a SAHM and get divorced, you’re in for one hell of an ass-fucking by the courts financially. Asset division will be skewed in her favor (considered “equitable” because she has lower earning capacity to replace these in the future) and alimony will be high and long in many states — and don’t even think about fighting a SAHM to take away her sole custody unless she’s a drug addict. This is the hi/lo bet for guys who the have “traditional Chistian” marriages. If it doesn’t work, you’re fucked even worse than the guys who married the career feminists are, because if you have nearly equal incomes, things like asset division are more likely to be closer to equal, and alimony is in most states out of the picture.
Link to that page as much as possible. Use it as a resource whenever needed. It has vital information that all men need to know.
I’m disabling comments on this post because I want to keep all discussion on that page. Follow the link or click on the tab at the top of the blog to read the page and comment on it.