When my mother was in high school, a 15 year old girl having sex with a guy on the football team would have been considered a slut. Now you (and other traditional conservative women) see her as a victim if the football player doesn’t follow up with an offer for a relationship after the casual sex.
I have been trying to articulate why socons and tradcons (or the church) being against divorce or premarital sex or a thousand other things really is only used against men but haven’t been able to until now. The reason is because socons and tradcons view women as victims in everything. When a divorce happens rather than viewing women as perpetrators (especially since women file most divorces), they view women as victims of divorce. When it comes to premarital sex and promiscuity, socons and tradcons view women as victims and not as willing participants. This is why you get tradcon women defending sluts.
What this means is that when someone is a victim, then the standard rules of sin do not apply. For example, socons and tradcons don’t consider rape victims guilty of the sin of premarital sex. The problem is that socons and tradcons think women are victims all the time. Thus their normal sanctions against divorce, premarital sex, and a myriad of other things effectively no longer apply to women. When socons and tradcons say their against divorce, or against premarital sex in both men and women, effectively this means they’re only against it in men because women are nothing but innocent victims to them. Plus, who are women the victims of to them? Men. Thus to socons and tradcons men aren’t just guilty of the sin but of “tricking” women into sinning as well. Even this gets taken to absurd extremes, since socons and tradcons believe that women can be “victims” of a “lack of male leadership” (which can be used to justify anything women do).
This is an example of how socons and tradcons are no different than feminists. Feminists view women as victims of men in a myriad of ways, and as we can see here so do socons and tradcons.