Last year, ReasonTV did a video about female libertarians and though there were the usual delusional excuses for female disinterest, most of the comments pointed out how beneficial big government has been to women.
I think libertarians somewhat realize the fact that women’s status and government spending/power are inextricably linked, but they haven’t yet discovered just how massively feminism contributes to ALL the phenomena they have identified as problems.
This gets to what the Achilles Heel of Libertarianism is. Until Libertarianism is willing to deal with the fact that women are the biggest supporters of big government and consistently vote for politicians promising the largest expansions of government, Libertarianism will remain a marginal political party and movement. (Libertarianism also has a similar problem with border security issues as a lack of border security, which Libertarians are for, effectively is importing more big government voters. However, this does not compare to the problem of women voting for the worst big government politicians out there.)
Expecting women to reject big government is like expecting government employees to reject big government (and not so ironically the majority of non-military and non-law enforcement government employees are female).