I’m about to run into the same problem with Sabrina that I had last year with Kristen and Rachel. What to do about the holidays?
While I think I can successfully fight the urge to buy Sabrina expensive jewelry (I don’t want to end up like Jose on the Jersey Shore), the holidays are massive minefield. And they don’t really end until after Valentine’s Day when it comes to women. I’m at the point I was last year. Do I dump Sabrina or not? I don’t want to give up the sex or the food and wait a few months until Valentine’s Day is over to find another woman. On the other hand Sabrina is wondering why she hasn’t met my parents yet especially since I met hers. So far I have been able to fend that off but I doubt I will be able to much longer. Plus she thinks this relationship is going somewhere other than to my bedroom for more sex.
I still want to bang Sabrina’s best friend so there’s the question of how that would fit into all of this as well. I have thought about a threesome with Sabrina and her best friend but such a thing would not happen in reality. I have thought about telling Sabrina I want a threesome with her and her best friend as a way of dumping her (or rather her dumping me) since I can’t see Sabrina going for a threesome. I’m not sure a simple dumping will work with Sabrina now. I have the feeling I will be dealing with weeks of her begging me to take her back which is why I’m thinking about other ideas on how to deal with this.
I would also like some ideas from everyone reading this on how you think I should handle this. This is going to be a recurring problem since I won’t be getting married and the holidays come every year, and I need a strategy for it.