Let’s review what code purple shaming language is:
Charge of Rationalization (Code Purple) – The Sour Grapes Charge
Discussion: The target is accused of explaining away his own failures and/or dissatisfaction by blaming women for his problems. Example:
- “You are just bitter because you can’t get laid.”
Response: In this case, it must be asked if it really matters how one arrives at the truth. In other words, one may submit to the accuser, “What if the grapes really are sour?” At any rate, the Code Purple shaming tactic is an example of what is called “circumstantial ad hominem.”
Why was this added to the Catalog of Anti-Male Shaming Language? Because a man’s worth isn’t based on how many women he has fucked. We should understand this better than most but too often there is too much judging of a man based on his sex life or lack thereof.
Meh, uncontrollable sex drive only occurs for about 1/3 of human life (or less). One thing that happens with the “game crowd” is they are placing more value on getting laid than what it is worth. 2/3 of your life will still be spent in a state where pussy is not your number one goal or thought. What happens too often with game/sex is that it is like being popular in school. It seems really important at the time to wear the right type of jeans, but in the end, it doesn’t really matter too much – certainly not as much as what you once thought it did.
I would certainly like to see the “Game” crowd stop behaving like women and calling MRA’s bitter little whiners.
I’ll tell you this, many in the MRM crowd have bedded enormously more amounts of women than the average commenter over at Roissy’s – and many of them don’t consider themselves to be PUA masters – however, I am simply amazed at how “few” women so many “gamers” think is successful.
At any rate, both Gamers and the MRM could do eachother a benefit by dropping this petty little schoolyard fight of mocking… but I have to say, gamers seem to be the ones that don’t want to drop it, as 75% of gamers (falsely) consider themselves as alphas, and criticize everyone else as a loser beta. (It’s a zero sum game, so for every new alpha created, another alpha drops down to beta – unless you are both going to cram your cocks into the same pussy at the same time – the top 20% is always going to be the top 20%, just like the top 20% of hockey players are still the top 20%, even though they are 100 times more skilled than hockey players from 100-years ago). Also, alpha and beta are not constant states, but rather ebb and flow throughout a man’s life – and much of this ebb and flow also comes from a realization, often through swallowing bitter pills, of what the MRM often speaks about.
Let’s face it. Most of the gamers who go after the MRM and MRAs aren’t that great at getting women. They’re not in a position to talk about MRAs being losers. Talk especially on the internet is very easy. To see just how easy take a look at the Jersey Shore as a example. Go to 7:05 of this video of one of the Jersey Shore after shows. They talk about how Pauly and Mike (“The Situation”) claim to be these great players but they’re really just “scraping the filth off the boardwalk”. “The Situation” even once called a large number of women in an hour and none of these women wanted anything to do with him. Granted, these guys haven’t called MRAs losers but if they did it would be nothing but a joke like the gamers who do that now. You’re not that great.
The “not getting laid” argument is just like the “not getting married” argument that gets used against MRAs and is used in pretty much the same way. We all know the dangers of marriage and why it should be avoided. This has not stopped conservative female supremacists from attacking us for being “immature”, “boys who shave”, or “refusing to do what God wants” or telling us that we need to “man up”. Agreeing with the CFS shaming language on marriage just gives women, manginas, and white knights power over men. (That’s why such shaming language exists, to control you.) It’s no different when undue importance gets placed on getting laid.
We all know the reasons why getting married is dangerous. It wasn’t always this way. It is possible with increased feminist control of government that sex with women could get more dangerous in the future just like marriage did. Hopefully, the misandry bubble will burst so that doesn’t happen but it could. Attacking MRAs for (supposedly) not getting laid is not going to protect you. If things get bad enough I am prepared to stop fucking women. Are you? If you aren’t then you are letting women, manginas, and white knights have power over you. I’m not suggesting anyone (least of all me) should stop fucking women right now. We aren’t there yet but game will not save you if things get this bad. As Rob pointed out marriage 2.0 nullifies a great part of game and if government ends up making fucking women as dangerous as marriage game will have the same problem there as well.
Knowing all this, why does it matter to you if another man is getting laid or not? If a man who isn’t getting laid says 2 + 2 = 4, that doesn’t make it wrong. Personally, I have a lot more respect for a man who isn’t getting laid and knows the truth than a man who is getting laid and letting himself get pushed around by women, manginas, and white knights for the “privilege”.