Dec 272009
 

I have been busy for a few days so I haven’t had a chance to respond to this comment from Susan Walsh.

I called you a dick because you called me a shitty mother.

I don’t know if you are a shitty mother in general.  I will assume you are not without evidence to the contrary.  However, you are a shitty mother when it comes to teaching your son about male-female interaction.  Nearly all mothers are shitty when it comes to telling their sons about the reality of women (and that includes my mother too) so you are hardly unique.

This is really just one aspect of the problem of female solipsism.

I also noticed you avoided talking about your comment about how I’m only capable of relating to women as “cum dumpsters”.  If I only relate to women as “cum dumpsters” as you say, Susan, then I was only able to do anything with women by relating to them only as “cum dumpsters”.

ED is a real problem among young men and it is growing.

Then quit whining when men take this problem seriously and go see a doctor about it.

As I stated on my blog, when one watches a lot of porn, those arousal patterns become entrenched in the brain. When men or women then find themselves in regular, normal, non-porn scenarios, they find that arousal eludes them.

I’m not sure what “a lot” of porn is, but if this is the case why didn’t I have this problem when I lost my virginity recently?  I don’t know if I watched “a lot” of porn or not.  Regardless, I wasn’t doing any “porn scenarios” with either woman I was with.

Besides what is the definition of “porn” here?  A quick search of the internet can find all different types of porn, many of which have some type of normal looking (i.e. not David Alexander bait) women.

Men aged 18-25 represent the fastest-growing group being prescribed Viagra

Is this because they actually need viagra or because because we’re pill happy in the US?  Given that this is the same age group with the biggest problem of heavy drinking and binge drinking it stands to reason that is a bigger part of the problem rather that “real ED”.  It’s not even like they have to stop drinking, but it’s easier to push a pill.

The reason I stated that men should stop wasting doctor’s time is that they are frequently loathe to admit how much porn they watch

It rarely matters so its irrelevant.  Besides what are these guys supposed to do if they aren’t getting laid?  They’re horny, and they need to do something about it.  Porn ends up being the answer unless they discover game.

Hurling the “shaming language” accusation won’t cut it

There’s a reason the catalog of anti-male shaming tactics exists. It’s because we hear the same things over and over again from women on these issues.  Susan, you almost could have copied and pasted some of the things you said from that list.

I’m also not sure why you keep denigrating my education – I never sought to use my degree in any other way than to explain on my own blog that I refer to my business background in the way I solve relationship problems. It’s you in the Game community who keep calling attention to my Wharton MBA. In insisting that I earned it only through affirmative action, what do you hope to accomplish? Why would you even say that? How do you know?

First, you brought up your degree and made a claim that it’s relevant.  Thus it brings up the question if you actually earned your degree.  Since affirmative action means lower standards for women and non-Asian minorities (as well as kicking out a deserving applicant using the guns of the state), this is a real question.  At the time you attended Wharton there were hardly any women going after MBAs but an affirmative action program which means they were desperate for women.  Thus any woman could have gotten in and gotten an MBA from them.  I have no idea what your transcript was at Wharton, but anyone who could have benefited from affirmative action is suspect of having not met the actual standard of earning whatever they claimed to earn.  Because of affirmative action, there is a good chance you never actually met the standard to earn a Wharton MBA particularly given the gender ratio of the Wharton MBA program at the time you attended.  Thus your MBA is suspect at best and any talk about your “business background” is also suspect at best since you may have benefited from affirmative action there as well.

I do want men to be healthy. I want them to be fit for relationships, because that is what my own readers are looking for.

And here it comes.  An anon covered this as well.  If you look up female supremacism in the dictionary, this excerpt will be there as an example.  Here we have a primary example of how women believe that men are supposed to be slaves for women.  Susan is saying that men are only supposed to be healthy because women want it.

I’m much harder on the women than the men

Given that so heavily skewed pro-female now, you would have to be about ten thousand times harder on women than you are now for that to be meaningful.

What is the real female problem with porn?  MarkyMark has already pointed that out: It exposes the slut lifestyle.  Many women are afraid about the truth about women getting out whether its due to porn or game or something else.  After understanding the truth about women, men will start going their own way (whether its using game to get laid occasionally, ghosting, etc. does not matter) and not be under the thumb of a woman.

All this talk about the problems supposedly caused by porn remind me of all the people who talk about the problems supposedly caused by video games.  When it comes to video games, it was all shown to be bunk, and it will be the same with porn.  What both of these have in common is that men (and boys in the case of video games) enjoy them.  This is nothing more than another attack on a predominantly male activity.  It’s also safe to say that there is some fear of male sexuality on the part of women here.

Another thing going on is that women are afraid of the competition from porn.  Of course, in the future with virtual reality sex and later sex bots, this “problem” will only get worse for women.  That’s what happens in an economic bubble when women keep raising the price of sex and offering less and less.

  10 Responses to “A response to Susan Walsh”

  1. The problem with porn, video games and anything else men do without women is that it undermines female power.

    Women went around saying a woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle and feeling smug, and are starting to realize that men need women even less.

    Without sex, the women of our country have nothing else to offer men.

    They are poor friends, they are generally users.
    Men don't need them to cook or clean anymore(they can now do it themselves or hire someone to clean their home for much less than it costs to have a woman in their life.)

    Men with game can get sex without the annoying restrictions of a relationship.

    Let me be very blunt, most of what women want to do in a relationship tends to be a sacrifice on the man's part.

    And the poor guy that wants a relationship? The women aren't healthy, they went and had a good time "hooking up smart" that now they are incapable of forming any kind of lasting bond.

    This reminds me of all the Lady Raine posts that someone went through and bolded all the "me" and it was "me" three words "me" three more words. until there was a "me" count in the hundreds.

    We have become so inured in our society to the narcissism of women that we don't even notice it most of the time.

  2. The problem with porn, video games and anything else men do without women is that it undermines female power.

    Talleyrand, this is exactly what is going on. This is where the female opposition to porn (and video games) comes from. I doubt Susan Walsh even admits this to herself, but this is the basis of her opposition to porn. In fact this is the real reason her blog exists. She is trying to convince women to settle for the beta/nice guy/whatever you want to call them before these men wise up. All Susan Walsh is trying to do is get women to stop slutting around a couple of years earlier so they can can get their hooks in a beta/nice guy/whatever. Of course, this will not happen.

    Without sex, the women of our country have nothing else to offer men.

    They are poor friends, they are generally users.
    Men don't need them to cook or clean anymore(they can now do it themselves or hire someone to clean their home for much less than it costs to have a woman in their life.)

    At this point women act if their vagina is gold plated. The other end of this is that women expect men to do everything else. (I have an interesting story about this I will be posting either later today or tomorrow.)

    I don't need to tell you about how most women our age don't know how to cook and clean. Women our age consider basic life skills as these, a patriarchal plot to oppress them. (As an aside both Kristen and Rachel when I was with them both seemed hyper to show how they could cook.)

    Women went around saying a woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle and feeling smug, and are starting to realize that men need women even less.

    And in the future men are going to need women even less.

  3. Just to throw it out there, a few young men may use Viagra due to watching porn, not because they have any sexual dysfunction but due to performance anxiety as porn and pop culture in general do not represent healthy and noral sexuality but a aped up perverted for of sex. A young man whose primary knowledge of sexual function comes from porn may be anxious or lack confidence in how how his body performs if he compares his normal body to the porn world.

    I have no idea if this might be a real issue, but I thought I'd throw it out there as it seems to be a natural consequence in a culture that values sex not for bonding or love but for performance instead.

    On a slightly different note, video games are also upsetting to some women as they promote male bonding which undermines female power in a way a man playing alone cannot. The same holds true with sporting events and other male bonding type activities. We've known some women who are even jealous of their husbands' "battle buddies", you know the men they bonded with while serving in combat together.

    My husband is a gamer and he used to host LAN parties, which was really a lot of fun as it gave me an excuse to make a bunch of different hot wings, dips, and other boy-friendly snack food before hiding away with a good book while the guys played games all night. Now that a large portion of his friends are married, he can hardly get any of them to go to a movie with him, let alone to a LAN party as their wives don't "allow" such things.

    This is a real shame as men need to forge connections with others than just the people in their immediate family as if they don't, they hae put all of their emotional eggs in one basket and will suffer greatly should this ever go away. This is likely why widowers fare worse than widows and men who get divorced do worse than women. Many men have NOBODY they are close to without the women in their life, much to their detriment, and sadly it seems many women want it this way.

  4. This whole bit about men having ED because of porn doesn't pass the BS test.

    Men aren't women. If a guy sees something arousing anywhere, anytime, he gets an erection. This is doubly true for teenage boys, who are in their sexual prime. All of us can remember an age in which we got hard for so much as brushing our dicks against the inside of our boxers.

    The only way porn could cause ED is if the guy in question was masturbating so often that his balls were completely drained. We're talking about hairy-palmed, completely blind, ten-times-a-day sex addict territory. Furthermore, none of these studies define what precisely ED in this context is. Does it mean not being able to get it up at all, or not being able to get it up for a certain length of time?

    PM/AFT, your explanation of binge drinking along with Hestia's "performance anxiety" bit explain this problem more accurately than these pseudoscientific quacks.

  5. Let me be up front in that I am against porn for moral/religious reasons. But I am realistic enough to realize that those who believe as I do are in the minority, and it is the majority of fellows out there to whom this thread is addressed.

    I happen to agree that in a world where the bulk of men are priced out of the dating market (is Walsh the source of the claim that 80% of dudes don't have a mate?), porn may be the only alternative. For certain it is safer, and it is arguably healthier over the long term.

    I also happen to agree that the irreligious female's opposition to porn is because it undermines female power. The power of the vag to aid a woman in her quest to acquire resources hinges on squelching male alternatives to the genuine article. Porn ably short-circuits attempts by the vag cartel to limit supply; the irony is that women more and more seem willing to strip off their clothes and cavort around naked or near-naked…they seem not to realize that their actions undermine what little sexual power they have remaining.*

    I don't know if porn causes ED, but I do think that consumption of porn tends to set up unrealistic standards of what a flesh-and-blood woman looks like (especially the morning after without her face on, and especially since the delta between porn women and "real" women is wide and getting wider b/c women are so overweight), and how she will act/behave IRL. This may make the soldier a little less willing to stand at attention when all he sees are ready and willing 8s and above and then is introduced to a less hot-to-trot 5 or 6. I suspect that this effect is particularly pronounced in an LTR.

    Granted, a soldier's unwillingness to dive into the Sarlaac Pit may be for the better, since I fear that most women–particularly the ones plugged more times than the titanic–would make poor spouses because they have the mores and the attitude of an alley cat.

    * We are getting to the point in our society where female sexual/dating power and advantage won't matter…because they will have the unlimited legal power–read: more guns than we do–to confiscate resources and restrict alternatives to vag.

  6. @Hestia

    Performance anxiety is a huge problem. It's isn't just porn either. Guys of the age we're talking about are used to getting a hard on all the time so it's natural to worry when it doesn't happen at the right time. Combine this with the tendency to prescribe a pill for everything, you have the ED "epidemic".

    @EW

    is Walsh the source of the claim that 80% of dudes don't have a mate?

    I don't think so. My understanding is that it comes from the top 20% of whatever controlling 80% of something that is seen in many different things. The 20/80 is used as a bit of a shorthand since its basically correct although the exact percentages may be slightly different.

    but I do think that consumption of porn tends to set up unrealistic standards of what a flesh-and-blood woman looks like (especially the morning after without her face on, and especially since the delta between porn women and "real" women is wide and getting wider b/c women are so overweight), and how she will act/behave IRL. This may make the soldier a little less willing to stand at attention when all he sees are ready and willing 8s and above and then is introduced to a less hot-to-trot 5 or 6. I suspect that this effect is particularly pronounced in an LTR.

    Wouldn't TV in general cause this if this was really a problem? You don't need porn to get unrealistic ideas of what people look like.

    A lot of this is sounding like this video from The Onion about how porn is dangerous because it tells kids that sex is enjoyable (link may be a bit NSFW).

  7. Here is a thought on viagra use among young men. They also happen to be drugged while groing up with ritalin and anti-depressive medications. Sexual dysfuntion is a direct side effect of these medicines and could well be the reason for the use of viagra. I personally spent a few months on an anti-depressant and it took a seriously great deal of effort to get it up. The body just wouldn't respond as it should. So it stands to reason that those drugged with Ritalin et al since the third grade would have erectile issues

  8. just asking: what exactly is "ghosting" as mentioned by PMAFT in this blog post?

  9. Ghosting is making yourself invisible to the state and/or wider society. It can involve expating or something as simple as deciding not to date/have relationships or even anything to do with women.

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