Aug 162009
I have never really liked the whole idea of expating. It stems from the idea that if a man just gets out of America (or North America or the West), he will find lots of good women. Some guys who have expated or want to expat even go as far as saying going to Europe is a good idea which is ludicrous. (However, if a man believes that the country he is in is about to become outright socialist and exapts, that I understand because in that case there is a tangible problem that is solved on the personal level by going elsewhere.)
Women are the same everywhere. There may be more restrictions on their behavior in other places but its only a matter of time before that falls apart. (Even Muslim countries are feminist in a peculiar way since burkas and sexual harassment lawsuits are similar.) On top of that women have always been the same. There is plenty of proof of this, but the latest comes from MarkyMark’s blog:
“Tie yourself up with a woman, and like a chained convict, you lose all freedom . . . If you only know what women in general are! Egotism, vanity, silliness, triviality in everything. That’s what women are when they show themselves as they really are…No, don’t marry, my dear friend. Don’t marry!”
— Leo Tolstoy, “War and Peace”“Women are generally stupid, but the devil lends her brains when she works for him. Then she accomplishes miracles of thinking, farsightedness, constancy, in order to do something nasty.”
— Leo Tolstoy 1898
Leo Tolstoy lived in the 1800s before modern feminism in Russia. Yet, the problems he describes with women are the same that we have now. The only real difference is that women now have the weapon of government to use against men. This means that even if the weapon of government is taken away from women, it doesn’t mean men are safe. It also means that expating to find a non-American or non-Western woman doesn’t work either.
Women (other than a small few who get it) are the same everywhere and always have been.
"However, if a man believes that the country he is in is about to become outright socialist and exapts, that I understand because in that case there is a tangible problem that is solved on the personal level by going elsewhere."
Expating was the right choice for me. It got me away from a stressful culture and intrusive laws.
Expating has not solved my personality issues. I don't have a woman, and in fact I don't have friends. This is not a problem with other people – this is a problem with myself. I make introverted choices and as a predictable result I don't have a full social calendar. In fact, I have just given up on a group of people who might have become close friends eventually because I don't feel comfortable with their religion. That's my choice – my theological comfort takes priority over their company.
Men too, are the same everywhere and always have been. Trying to deflower women. Another notch in the belt. They are pissed that now women have become just as promiscuous as men.
There are a few good men left, but most are just sleazes, pua's or users.
"Men too, are the same everywhere and always have been. Trying to deflower women. Another notch in the belt. They are pissed that now women have become just as promiscuous as men."
Male promiscuity didn't become a virtue until after the sexual revolution.
"There are a few good men left, but most are just sleazes, pua's or users."
Women get the men they deserve, and "sleazes" and "PUAs" are the best that Western women deserve.
Women get the men they deserve, and "sleazes" and "PUAs" are the best that Western women deserve.
Ka-ka-kaboom! FB NAILS it!!!
Expating was the right choice for me. It got me away from a stressful culture and intrusive laws.
Expating has not solved my personality issues…
You understand the issues with expating. Too many guys act like outside the US or the West is a paradise of good women. That isn't the case.
Men too, are the same everywhere and always have been. Trying to deflower women. Another notch in the belt. They are pissed that now women have become just as promiscuous as men.
It really helps if you don't contradict yourself in the same paragraph, catwoman. If men were so busy trying to "deflower" women (you can say sex on this blog) then women were just as promiscuous as men before so why would men be complaining now? Of course, you're guilty of the frontman fallacy and the apex fallacy in the same paragraph so everything you say is illogical drivel.
PMAFT,
One of my readers commented that it was Tolstoy's choice of a mate that made his life miserable. His wife wanted all the fine things in life; she was materialistic. Tolstoy, OTOH, was like many guys; the simple things in life were fine with him. Had he chosen a woman whose attitudes were more in line with his, then perhaps he wouldn't have written the above quotes…
MarkyMark
MM,
We hear that all the time. The real problem is the lack of "right women" out there.